A Survival Story

A Finnish American Childhood Memoir
set in 1950s Massachusetts.

Hello, and welcome...

Hello, and welcome to my world! My name is Linda Lundgren, and I love being a wife, mother of two, and grandmother of four. My high school sweetheart, Rich, and I have been married for 57 years. 

Professionally I enjoyed teaching science and language arts. I am especially gratified to be coauthor of a science textbook and supplemental science booklets for a major textbook publisher. My biology book is a best seller in the U.S. and has been translated into several languages.

 

After 30 years...

After 30 years of writing about science, I decided it would be an enjoyable new challenge to write a more personal story, so I wrote a memoir of growing up in western Massachusetts as a Finnish American child—and a survivor of my father’s abuse. At best, this is a story of the endurance of serenity and love, at worst the persistence of pain and terror.

Child abuse was less reported when I grew up, but today almost 700,000 children are abused each year in the United States. My story demonstrates the horror of child abuse, its lasting effects, and above all survival.

In my memoir, my Finnish grandmother teaches me about sisu, a Finnish cultural construct so important for my survival. Sisu means survival against all odds. It means determination, grit, bravery, resilience, and hardiness.

In addition to my Finnish roots, my connection to nature is essential. I escape to favorite forest areas where I can feel free with birds, flowers, and other woodland creatures.

Stories & More...

I am excited to write to you on this site about three topics:

  1. Stories about how I survived my childhood, growing up in the 50s with a violent and abusive father and an extremely ill mother. The stories on my website are in addition and separate from those in my memoir.

  2. Blogs that are vignettes of my past and present.

  3. Writing Lessons that explain the writing process with emphasis on memoir. I give tips about making time to write, getting stuck, and using prompts.

 

My Intention...

My intention for writing my memoir is for those who had similar experiences to find hope in my words, and those who know someone who suffered child abuse to have empathy. Women’s movements give voice to adult women who are harassed, marginalized, and attacked in the workplace, but it is also important to pay attention and take action against fathers who are often the first ones to harass, marginalize, and abuse their daughters.

I’d love to hear your thoughts and comments as my blogs and stories unfold.